Mutual masturbation can be a thrilling experience, but first, we need to study the basics
of manual technique. Most men feel women aren't skilled at handling penises. Their grips
are too limp, lacking conviction and exuberance. They seem afraid to apply pressure, yet
often pull or tug at inappropriate moments, disrupting the rhythm. They also have a
tendency to scratch. Clearly, we all need to be more knowledgeable about the proper
methods of mutual masturbation. Either you or your partner can perform the following
exercises.

Explore every square inch of his genital surface area. A man loves to have his penis
worshipped, played with, tickled, fondled, massaged. Let him know that you are not
afraid, ashamed or disgusted.

Don't start stroking or jerking quite yet. Just feel the fullness of it all. Let your fingers run
from the balls to the top of the crown of th Lingam, swirl around there, then slide back down the
other half and end back down at the balls. The movements should be swift and smooth,
without bumping or stalling.

Bring your palm up to the top of the glans and park it there flat out, fingers held together
and stiff, thumb pointed straight out. Spin it around as if you were trying desperately to
remove the tight lid of a jar. Your partner will be groaning in delicious agony. The glans is
super sensitive and this motion will bring him exquisite pleasure. He might grimace and
cry out, but he's loving every second of it.

After you've done this for a while, slip your hand down his testicles and ever-so-gently
grab them in your fingers, softly tugging them down away from his shaft. If they are big
and bulky, like Grade AA eggs, bounce them up and down a couple of times in your
hand. Tell him how heavy they feel, how sexy they are. Whatever you do, don't squeeze
them!
Once you feel comfortable with the way his balls feel in your hand, gently roll them up
the underside of his shaft. Depending on their size and the amount of room in the
scrotum, they will most likely reach to half way of his penis. He will like the way this
feels.

Now, let go of his testicles and bring your fingers together in a makeshift goosehead
formation. Very lightly, begin to stroke his erection with your fingers, running them all
over his sensitive shaft and balls. You may wish to slip the pocket of your goosehead
handhold over the tip of his penis, letting it rest there for some time.

The penis will probably start to emit its natural lubricant, it lubricates the head of the Lingam.

An uncircumcised penis athers up this lubricant within the foreskin and keeps
the head very moist and slick. Use the juice to lubricate the shaft. Sometimes, its musky
smell can be an aromaticaphrodisiac for you both.

In any case coconut oil or a good lubricant will work just as well. Add a drop of moisturizing lotion
to the shaft and gently rub it in. Alexandra Penney, in her book, "How to Make Love to a
Man", is very keen on massaging the lotion between one's hands before putting it on the
penis because sometimes the cream is cold and the palm-rubbing warms it up.

If your partner doesn't seem to have a very firm erection, try using a cinnamon-based
ointment which you can find at your local sex novelty store or acquire through a mail
catalog. The slight burning sensation often causes the penis to become rock-hard. Adding
a little dab to the testicles also helps.Alternately slip adollop of Ben-Gay on his balls
and watch him go through the roof.

One of the secrets of great manual sex is varying your hand motions.
Here are a few indispensable techniques:

HATH KA MASTI
Use both hands, alternating back and forth in a pattern you develop to offer him the most
arousal. He will notice the difference. Don't get into a routine where the strokes are dull,
and noncommittal.

Bring both well-lubricated hands down on his shaft.
Some cocks are so big they require both hands. If your partner's doesn't, then use the
other hand to caress and lightly flutter his balls, or tighten around the base of his shaft. If
both hands fit along the length of the shaft, move then together, up and down, in the
typical pumping motion.
You can also vary the directions of your hands, one up, one down at the same time.

THE SHUTTLE COCK
Not many people have heard of the "shuttle cock," but it's one of the best. Take the penis
in both hands, fingers lightly touching the sides of the shaft. In order to visualize the
position, think of yourself holding a clarinet. Now flick the penis back and forth between
your two hands by holding on to the loose skin of the shaft. Shuttling it back and forth in
this manner may not seem incredibly thrilling to him at first, but pretty soon, as it builds up
momentum, it will drive him out of his mind.

THE BOOKENDS
Place both of your hands side by side against his shaft like a pair of bookends. Now push
hard against his penis. Then lift your hands up and down. Continue in this manner for a
while. The constant tugging of the skin around the balls and the mons pubis will do the
trick.

AGNI
Place your hands down on either side, your fingers pointing away from the cock. Pretend
you're a campfire girl and start spinning his pecker like a stick of wood. This way you'll
keep the home fires burning for a long time to come.

THE BASE CLUTCH
Tighten your thumb and forefinger around the base of the shaft, pressing down on the
balls. This will cut off the blood (acting as an impromptu cock ring) and help you steady
the shaft in your hand. If the skin on it is slick and immutable, you can stroke the penis
with more friction, thereby enhancing the excruciating experience.

THE LOVE TUG
As you are stroking him, lightly pull on the wispy strands of pubic hair sprouting from his
testicles. Don't pull so hard that you remove them, but tease them gently, lovingly. This
will make him holler with delight and awe at your inventiveness.

THE TWO-TIMER
Tickle his balls with one hand while the other jerks him up and down.

THE THIGH-SWATTER
Use the hand that is currently unemployed to firmly but lovingly pat his inner thighs.

BEST FIST FORWARD
Place your fist against his perineum as you're stroking him. He'll probably start opening
his legs a little wider, giving you more space to press against.

As always, it is the psychological impact of what you are doing that makes the sex so
satisfying. Let your mind escape into the uncharted wilderness of fantasy. As a sexual
pioneer, it is your manifest destiny to explore the outer limits of your sensuality.

THE MILKER
Hands alternate 'milking' up the penis, starting at the base and
working all the way up past the tip.

THE PERPETUAL PENETRATION
Rather than just grabbing the penis at the top, let his penis 'penetrate'
into your fist on each stroke. Before the head of his penis pops out of your hand, bring
the other hand up for the next penetration. This way it seems to him like he is penetrating
deeper and deeper into an infinite vagina. Make sure you keep the penetration continuous
for best results. Try faster or slower to taste.

THE PALM SWIRL
- Use your open palm to swirl around the head, the way your tongue would lick an ice
cream cone. This sensitizes the head, and will make it get larger and turn (even more)
red. Try reversing direction for a surprise.

TINY CIRCLES
- As in "The Palm Swirl", use your open palm on his glans, but stop at each "hour of the
clock", and make circular motions with your open palm. This will make this part of the
head EXTREMELY sensitive, so move to the next hour after a few circles.

THE RING
- Make a ring with your thumb and forefinger, and pump up and down with this ring.
When you get to the top, close the ring, then make him squeeze his way in as you slide
back down to the bottom.

THE DOOR KNOB
- Turn the head of his penis like a you're trying to open a door knob coated with grease.
Now try turning the other way. Repeat.

THE SHAFT
- Stroke only his shaft, ignoring the head. You will notice it swelling and turning red.
When it's bright red and rock hard, use the Door Knob, the Palm Swirl, or the Perpetual
Penetration.

THE SPOT PINCH
Lightly and slowly run a finger up the under side of his cock. Ask him to tell you where
the most sensitive spot is. Pinch it, squeeze it, nibble it, tease it. This is a good spot to
pinch to turn a soft cock rock solid.

The mysterious G-SPOT

What is and where is the G-spot?
by unknown

Summary:
1) The g-spot exists in all women.
2) sensitivity varies.
3) Reaction/interpretation/openness varies.

G-spot IS female analog to prostate. It really does exist.

The road map (can by used by a man/woman with a woman partner or a woman on
herself).

Start from the pubic bone, it is the bone running across the lower end of the abdominal
region -- between the thighs and a little above the clitoris and labia. The g-spot is behind
this bone -- so you need to find a way around to the other side. Fortunately, there is an
alternate approach in women -- up the vagina. The walls of the vagina are somewhat
wrinkly, a testimony to how much the vagina can stretch (say to the size of a baby's
head). On the forward surface there is a smoother patch in about 2 knuckles (1.5-3
inches, 3.5-7 cm.). If a woman was to lay her palm on top of her clitoris and curl a finger
(or fingers) in to the vagina in to a loose clench, the tips would be in the right region. The
g-spot is buried under some layers of tissue so it may take some pressure to stimulate this
area.

Repeating some general hints.

Arousal of the g-spot is usually more effective if the woman is already sexually
aroused.

Sharp or long nails are probably a no-no.

Some pressure may be necessary. Two fingers are usually employed -- esp. since
few people use mechanical typewriters (which would give fingers strength and
endurance).

Initial sensations in the woman may be a) discomfort, an urge to urinate (the
urethra from the bladder is being stimulated), or a pleasurable sensation.

As stimulation continues (few minutes), the g-spot will begin to swell. "Continued
stimulation of the area  may  result in an orgasm that is often quite intense." [see
above regarding being sexually aroused -- first. No arousal -- no orgasm].

Ejaculation is possible, but the fluid is different from vaginal secretions and from
urine.

This does not work for all women. Discuss with your intimates. Compare notes.

For some women, this area may receive stimulus in penile- vaginal intercourse
given the right angles. Rear entry ("doggie style") may facilitate penile pressure in
this region.

If the partner you are playing with is a man, you can try for a similar effect on his
prostate entering through his anus -- Long or sharp nails are a big NO-NO. You
might want to use a glove or condom over fingers.

Note this can actually cause an ejaculation from a man without orgasm or an
intense orgasm or something in between or nothing at all.